really really smart men drive me crazy. not nutty crazy. sexy crazy. always have. when all my girlfriends are whining about the hot guys who are jerks, i fall for the geeky guys who are jerks. they don’t mean to be. it’s purely accidental. their social skills aren’t the best, i’m more high maintenance than they can take, but the sex is great. oddly, they can code for hours on end, spend 48 hours problem solving server issues, but the care and feeding of emotions seems beyond their grasp.
every geeky man i’ve been with was hurt and confused significantly at some point and that was it. withdrawn emotions. OR they chase cute women who wouldn’t give them the time of day.
it reminds me of the black scottie and white scottie magnets my grandfather had. so close…but too far to connect. so close, but destined to repel each other forever.
no one ever said geeky boys had style. but i love. i think they’re hot.
